Once in a while I write a blog to remind nervous newcomers that there is in fact no reason to be nervous. BDSM and FemDom do not have to involve pain. I enjoy the very sensual side of FemDom.

Before our session takes place, we will have an in-depth discussion about the things you enjoy and what you would like to achieve through our session. Your limits will be respected and our session will evolve based on your reactions during our session.

It is not uncommon for newcomers to BDSM to over-fantasise.  By that, I mean they request things that are extreme, then on the day of the session they realise they won’t be able to take that severe cold caning or do the hard sports they’ve fantasised about. Rather than cancel the session, come and talk to Me and we will tone the session down to something we will both enjoy and appreciate. Nothing is set in stone and I am seriously good at recognising and playing within your limits. You are allowed to change your mind before or during our session. Remember that ultimately this is about our mutual pleasure and satisfaction. With Me, both are guaranteed.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.  Don’t waste it.

Mistress V